Is Christina trying too hard?

Ever since photos of the Dream and his assistant cheating in the Caribbean, Christina Milian has been on the blogs a lot looking happy and having fun. There's nothing wrong with having fun and hanging out but I swear I haven't seen this many photos of her in months. First, there was her working out in a tight body suit:
Then there was this picture with Christina and Serena Williams hanging out:

Then we have the latest one of her and Mel B hanging out:
As much as I love a good comeback story, I feel like Christina is trying too hard. She's trying too hard to show the press that she's okay and to show Dream that she doesn't need him. It's like a typical break up. No one wants their ex to see them depressed and crying, so they put on their best outfit, get their hair done/cut, and just go out looking fresh to death in hopes their ex will see them and realize they don't need them or make them want them back.

It's obvious she's doing the former because the Dream has been done with this relationship since December 2009. In court papers, he stated the divorce was irreparably broken and they will not be getting back together. In other official papers, Dream had her sign away the right to any alimony or half of anything he owns, so what's a girl to do? Get out there and remind people what you're worth. Here's my advice to C-Mili

1.) Get a job: I'm not talking about UPS, I'm talking about tapping into what your best talent is, acting. And I mean a real job, not any of the low budget B-movies you've been starring. Get a role in a big movie and start from there.

2.) Don't respond to negativity: right now, Christina is the trending topic on Twitter and a sympathetic figure in urban culture. So much so that she and Funkmaster Flex got into a mini Twitter war.

"Christina Milian is Finished out here....Dream just wrapped you up...."
This obviously didn't sit well with Ms. Milian, who fired back at Flex via
Twitter:
"@funkmasterflex when will u just leave me alone and get a life? I
swear all uve ever done is pick on me. What's ur problem dude? Go away."
Sensing trouble, Flex responded to C-Mili in a much more appropriate tone:
"@CMilianOfficial.i was jokin. i will give you a break. wasnt personal.ps i
dont agree with what the dream did. love to your little one."
Christina then
thanked the DJ for his apology

This stuff is for the birds, leave it alone. If you want to get on Beyonce's level, take a page from her book and don't respond to negativity like this.

3.) reinvent yourself: do you want to be forever banished to music/acting purgatory? No, then reinvent yourself. Update your image, find new mature music that appeals to the masses but shows your growth.

4.) keep the Dream's name out of your mouth: this goes along with #3, if you want a successful career, then put this behind you. Refuse to answer questions about your marriage and divorce, keep it about the music/acting, and a bit of baby violet. It may help for you to tell how you survived this scandal, people love a good comeback story.

5.) Stop calling the paparazzi: I know the blogs are the only way for you to get your name out there but stop calling the paps, it's not cute. Let your next appearance be career oriented.