At one point, everyone has dealt with this need. When we're younger, we aim to fit in so we follow the latest trends and act in a way that is pleasing to others. As we get older, we realize how ridiculous this is and we become individuals. For most of us here, we have a long way to go before we reach that point.
I have dealt with the need to be liked. In fact, I still do. I think that's a part of my nature and one I try to control rigorously because it opens me up to vultures. I've never been very popular and I've always felt like that "spare." All of my sisters are close and I feel like the outsider and when my Dad was married, thank goodness that's over, my stepmom had three kids and it was just me. I wanted to be liked but frankly, I didn't care. I realized they didn't like me and I don't care. The need to be liked is a useless need. We can't please everyone, nor should we want to. The need to be liked has been many a great mans downfall. If you are struggling with this need, give it up. Repeat this mantra to yourself daily: I am fearfully and wonderfully made, God does not make junk. I accept and love myself as I am.
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